Sunday, December 9, 2007

TUTU, THE HOMELESS AND SOME DONUTS ...


Some years ago Desmond Tutu came to my my faith community. At the time there were very real concerns for his personal safety. So his security folks thought it best to move our early Sunday morning coffee and donuts cart -- a staple for our local homeless -- across the street. Being the guy who knew all our cities' homeless, I was asked to sit with them and monitor the situation.


So Sunday morning found 15 of us having our coffee and watching the rich and ordinary parade into the church. Finally, John Rasmussen, who I liked to say "never had a sober day in his life," looked at me as if he'd just woke up, "Frank, why we over here?" "Well, John there is a very famous man coming to church and they needed to use our coffee space." "What famous man?" "Bishop Tutu of South Africa." I replied.


"Oh." said John, staring at the ground as he let my words sink in. And then suddenly John brighten up and said, "tutu" and then again ... "tutu" ... then he stumbled as he made an awkward attempt to turned around, and laughing uproariously to himself, "tutu," louder and louder, "tutu."


As luck would have it at that moment, His Eminence, the Right Reverend Desmond Tutu, future Archbishop of Cape Town South Africa and Nobel Prize winner, dressed in all his red and white episcopal finery was ushered out on to the church lawn.


And on hearing "his name" that sweet man looked across the street, smiled and waved energetically, "Good Morning, Good Morning," he called over in his light, lyrical voice.


John suddenly stood still. He seemed startled as if that voice had taken the humor out of his own private joke. He look at me, refill his coffee, took another donut from the cart and wander off down the street. Bishop Tutu followed the choir and the other clergy into the sanctuary. In that brief moment two saints of my life touch each other.

Monday, November 26, 2007

12,000 TO BE HONORED ON THE DC MALL


To honor LGBT military personnel fired under 10 USC Sec. 654, better known as the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, (enacted November 30, 1993) 12,000 Flags on the Mall will take place starting on the 14th anniversary of the policy's enactment, November 30, 2007, and continue through Sunday, December 2nd. During that weekend, each of the 12,000 flags installed on Washington's National Mall will serve to honor an individual service member discharged under "Don't Ask."

Saturday, November 24, 2007

DANIEL, an "e" partner ...

On a more personal level...

I belong to a number of blogs. One of them, LECTIONARY EPISTLE NOTES is committed to reading, studying and commenting on each week's lectionary epistle reading. It was monitored by Rev. Daniel Berry. One day I became aware that the weekly email NOTES had stopped coming.

In the back of my mind I started to think: was my junk mail collector getting better; was I too liberal; did I offend someone? I was too busy to do the fact checking until tonight when I got a "NOTE" saying that Daniel -- who kept it going -- had died of a massive heart attack over the holidays. So who cares? I do for one.

You see Daniel was on the opposite end of the theological spectrum as I am. After we began a series of private messages, we both knew it. That did not stop us from communicating albeit just over the internet.

And it was Daniel I wrote to when, after all these years, I realized I did not have a concrete understanding of "salvation." Driving home one night something told me, "Ask Daniel." I asked the right man. Despite our differences he walked me though my own exploration. Though him and with Him, I re-discovered salvation.

I don't claim to "know" this blind pastor from a tiny Texas town, I cannot go to his services ... I was not even aware he was married ... I just know that for weeks on end we wrote back and forth about a host of issues; one very important one for me, and that this self described "Orthodox Presbyterian" help me along the way.

Daniel, Daniel may flights of angels see thee to thy rest ...

IT'S THAT TIME OF YEAR...

Part of being able to appreciate this bit beauty might come being familiar The Episcopal Church in American or in this particular case the Anglican Church in England.

I remember a priest saying to me once, after a state funeral at the National Cathedral in Washington DC: "We really know how to do worship." He had every right to claim what is a fact. This is one of those moments ... a song is sung and it marks the beginning the holy season of Christmas.

Friday, November 23, 2007

MARRAIGE SOLUTION, a blessing...


The solution to all of the issues surrounding marriage today is simple: disallow the clergy from carrying out a legal state function. Clergy can not divorce, why permit them to marry.

Some churches have already questioned their participation in a state role. "We are looking at the function of our church in marriage ceremonies," says Anita Hill, a pastor at Saint Paul-Reformation, Saint Paul, MI. "We're not in the wedding business; we're in the blessing business."

Rev. Hill’s church joins dozens of congregations and clergy persons who now refuse to carry out a state function. All couples may use the church for blessings, this solution reasons. The only difference is that heterosexual couples take the added step of finding a court house to make their "contract" legal.

The United Church of Christ(UCC) says dozens of its churches across the country have begun to forsake the legal aspect of marriage and that individual clergy persons are refusing to sign marriage certificates. “When a law is not morally right, we are not going to follow it," says Reverend Don Portwood of Lyndale, MI.

“Jettisoning the legal portion of marriage has only reinforced the spiritual aspect,” Rev. Hill says. "As a congregation, we started coming back to the importance of marriage as an institution to the understanding of the importance of having a communal ritual."

All people need the essential aspects of faith communities; in particular persons broken by divorce. As it is today, marriage is a blessing and divorce a curse. Jesus did celebrate at his friend's wedding but his entire ministry is summed up in the story of the Good Samaritan.

Rethinking the legal aspect of marriage will clarify and enhance the roles both the church and government must play in a healthy society. The role of the church is to bless the union and pick up the broken hearted; the role of the government is to legally bind and dissolve a contact. Each should do their part well.

NO UNITER HERE...


During an interview (here) with the Christian Broadcasting Network's David Brody, Senator Barack Obama (D-IL), seeking the presidency in 2008, responded to a question on special rights for LGBT citizens.

Obama disagrees with the notion that things like hospital visitations for same-sex spouses are special rights. "How would Jesus feel about somebody not being able to visit somebody they love when they're sick?" He asks.

But that response is a dance around the simple issue of full equality. Perhaps it is his way of sticking to his campaign pledge of being a “uniter.” The question is, Mr. Obama, “Why aren't the basic rights of LGBT citizens important to you?

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

SOMETHING-OR-OTHER DAY





Now, this is really cool...

I went to Grandparent's Day at Az's school ... let's get something straight, I totally object to the name of this yearly event, and everyone who goes is way older, like hundreds of years older than me but, to be honest? ... I don't know what else to call it.

During the morning the Head Master keep saying, "I know what an effort it is for you to come to this event." ... I wanted to smack him! After the classroom did their shows, I told him that it was NOT an effort ... how could it be! ... not if I get to see Az on stage doing her show and singing "We Are the World" (LOLOLOLOL) and, showing me her classroom, projects, talking to her teacher.

In the play yard she did one of those, "Frank" and ran-over-and-jumped-into-my-arms things ... almost got my back but it was worth it ... and, finally, I understand why Tyler calls her "monkey" ... I mean, in the yards she is all over the place. And this second grader can put together one of those USA puzzle maps (without outlines) in like two minutes ... and, knows the names of the states!

Two years ago, I gave her a plant to take to school. Why? because here brown thumbed parents gave her an azalea; the kind that die in two weeks ... but, "Mr. Gardener" here knows that one particular broad-leaf succulent will last for six months without water ... so there, by her classroom door was our plant and a picture of her ... I love Grandparents' day!

There is nothing better in the world...

Monday, November 19, 2007

TUTU ON THE CHURCH TODAY




In an interview with BBC Radio 4 (here)
, Nobel Peace Laureate and South African Archbishop Emeritus Desmond Tutu said the Archbishop of Canterbury, Dr Rowan Williams, had failed to demonstrate that God is "welcoming".

He also repeated accusations that the Church was "obsessed" with the issue of gay priests and it should rather be focusing on global problems such as Aids.

"Our world is facing problems - poverty, HIV and Aids - a devastating pandemic, and conflict," said Archbishop Tutu, 76. "God must be weeping looking at some of the atrocities that we commit against one another.

Friday, November 16, 2007

A SIMPLE EMAIL ... draft 2

This was my own way of explaining one sense of my faith in light of the media attention given to some high-profile, fundamentalist Christians and their attitudes. It's not complicated.

In your email you mentioned our "buddy," the Rev. Fred Phelps! God love 'em! A reporter said recently that when he wrote a story about Phelps (and his family church) he came away feeling "dirty." I have had two run-ins with him -- once at church and once at a community event. I’d say feeling “dirty” is a good word!

And if you have not heard last week Rev. Phelps lost an 11 million dollar law suit for taking one of his "Glad American Soldiers are Dead because America is Tolerant Towards Fags" protests to the grave site memorial of an American Soldier who was killed in Iraq. That is just hateful.

That same reporter said that when he mentioned Phelps to other pastors in Topeka, Kansas, where Phelps is from, that they would turn away as if in disgust. But the point is well taken; those same pastors preach from the same Gospel and in some, but not all, cases may preach a similar but less public version of the "Phelps interpretation" of the Bible.

The reason I said "God love 'em" is because more than anyone I can think of the Rev. Phelps, and his "God Hates Fags" ministry, continues to draw attention to the hatred and prejudice that gay people face and how it continues to be used to justify social inequity and individual attacks on them. Like it or not, Phelps’ brand of theology is the natural extension of any so-called Biblical interpretation that says "homosexual practice is sinful."

The "light on the hill" here does not come from that Biblical misread but more importantly from the First Amendment of the United States Constitution. It gives equal rights to all of us not just to him and his despicable attendance at military funeral. In fact the idea of equality under justice seems lost on a host of believers.

What I don’t understand is why folks call out a small group of Christians: “the Phelpses and the Pat Robertsons and the Benny Hinns” of our world and lump their version of the Bible together to indict all Christians.

I've been lucky enough to meet two of the great Christians prophets of our time, Archbishop Desmond Tutu and the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. And there are many, many others ... Historically, the Anti-Baptists, Quakers, Mennonites, St. Francis of Assisi… so, in the ways they “reconcile” their faith, you could say, so do I.

Forgive me, but I think your time would be better spent in reading about the likes of Dr. King than spending time with a few nut cases who will eventually be relegated to the dust bin of history.

Thursday, November 15, 2007

KICKED OUT .... DRAFT #2

1) The City of Philadelphia is essentially kicking the Boy Scouts of America out of its building.

2) The North Carolina State Baptist Convention is kicking Meyers Park Baptist Church out of its convention.

Now, what do these two seemly unrelated events have in common? The former groups are upset with the way the later groups are treating gay persons. The City of Philadelphia says its laws prevent persons from discriminating because of sexual orientation ... NCSBC says that they will discriminate because of the way a member church treats gay persons. In both cases the later groups are being kick out of something, one a building; one a "social" group.

Confusing huh? Probably unrelated, too. But as a former Boy Scout and church leader I can tell you that most of that leadership is lives in a cocoon.

Boston Globe Op/Ed by Rep. John Lewis (D-GA) said:

"I've heard the reasons for opposing civil marriage for same-sex couples. Cut through the distractions, and they stink of the same fear, hatred, and intolerance I have known in racism and in bigotry.

Some say let's choose another route and give gay folks some legal rights but call it something other than marriage. We have been down that road before in this country. Separate is not equal. The rights to liberty and happiness belong to each of us and on the same terms, without regard to either skin color or sexual orientation."


Are the Democrats running aware of this?

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

HEADLINES ...

Tuesday's Headline: BUSH signs largest Pentagon Spending Bill in History.

History's Headline: Then Jesus said to him, "Put your sword back into its place; for all who take the sword will perish by the sword." - Matthew 26:52

AT ISSUE: BEING WELCOMING ..

Well, the delegates to the annual meeting of the N.C. Baptist State Convention voted overwhelmingly Tuesday to expel Charlotte's (NC) Myers Park Baptist for welcoming gays and lesbians without trying to change them.

There was no roll call vote; delegates overwhelming raised their hand to signify that the Christians from Myers Park were no longer welcome! Now let's see, one group welcomes; the other does not.

Tuesday, November 13, 2007

IT MIGHT BE FUNNY IF... - an 8th draft

A friend of mine called yesterday. "WHY do you HAVE to blog about that creepy Craig "thing," it's disgusting ... the least you could do is give (Senator David) Vitter equal time with the hypocrisy issue!" Then without missing a beat this former actor created some hilarious ideas for a two man Craig/Vitter stage show.

Now in case you live under a political rock, the “ethics” of Senators David Vitter (R-LA) and Larry Craig (R-ID) have come into question; Mr. Vitter has been visiting prostitutes for years and Mr. Craig likes to troll the toilets. Both conservative Republicans ran on “family values” platforms. Mr. Vitter’s type of “ethics” has not damage his Senate career but Mr. Craig says that he was “not only thrown under the bus but it has backed and ran over me again.”

So thinking about equality and tired of "driving a bus," I did a little research and found this interesting tidbit about the Vitter/Craig "whatever-you-want-to-call-thems." It seems that one influential gay lobbying group is tying the two of them together (figuratively) and is objecting to the Craig Senate Ethics Committee investigation.

Why? Because they say there is an "inherent contradiction between your (the ethics committee's) treatment of allegations of ethical misconduct by Senator Larry Craig and Senator David Vitter ... There is no explanation for the diametrically opposed responses to these two situations other than hypocrisy tinged by homophobia."

Now, let’s see, what can we name this "Vitter/Craig" stage show? It's a comedy right?

Monday, November 12, 2007

ALL IN ONE DAY ...


A few days ago I was musing about justice movements in the so-called Red States. And now look at this, all in one day: Jim Neil (right) a political unknown is running for the Senate in North Carolina. Unlike Senator Craig and that whole group who have sought to hide their sexuality, Neal volunteered his in a public forum. "I am indeed," Neal said when asked whether he was gay. "No secret and no big deal to me -- I wouldn't be running if I didn't think otherwise."


Rev. Stephen Shoemaker, Senior Pastor
And then there is Myers Park Baptist Church in Charlotte, a congregation of nearly two-thousand people, that may find itself expelled from the North Carolina Baptist Convention this week because its unconditional welcoming of gays and lesbians.

Perhaps Mr. Neil's matter-of-fact attitude will be helpful to the church. But, you know, as I wander around the web I read similar stories ... small signs of hope; of justice. I just might move to North Carolina, vote for Mr. Neil and attend Myers Park Church. I just don't know about the Baptist part ... thanks guys!

Saturday, November 10, 2007

MLK ...A VISION THEM AND NOW...

Cannon Julian Bartlet(2nd), Rev. King (m), Bishop James Pike (l) Grace Cathedral,1965

If you get to a certain age you become witnesses to the great events ... think of one, the World Trade Center, Vietnam, the assassinations – place yours here. Either by choice or circumstance they embrace our lives.

I have a piece of the old Berlin Wall on my library shelf. It came from a Lutheran Pastor whose church meetings and peaceful demonstrations in the late 1980's helped bring down the last East German Communist government. When I look at that little piece of concrete I marvel at the courage of those who march against the policies and the environment of that time.

Similarly the concept of equal justice that was embodied within our Civil Rights movement was given substance in own faith. On Saturday, March 20, 1965 I read a headline in the San Francisco Chronicle: "Negro to Preach at Grace.”

The next day I sat in an isle seat when the Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. stepped in to the beauty of San Francisco's Grace Episcopal Cathedral. He had just completed the march at Selma Alabama.

As he began to preach I took one of those little golf pencils from the back of the pew and scribbled down some of his words. “One day all men in this country must come together or parish as fools … we can no longer preserve the old order … no state has the right to do wrong … I do believe some day we shall overcome, some of us may not make it, but the Lord will see it some day.”

Note too long ago I found that sermon on the Grace Cathedral web site and once again heard Dr. King’s eloquence. His words are as stunning now as it was them … but nothing could ever substitute the electric atmosphere of being thereand feeling a sense of transformation in his voice. That service leaflet now sits along side that piece of the Berlin Wall.

I am grateful to God that Incremental events continue to move us forward and to know that that journey is at the heart of the American experience.

Wednesday, November 7, 2007

Freedom of Speech?


A reporter said recently, I felt dirty writing about it. I feel the same. And I don’t know how to get that feeling out of my system. It is odd how it brought together my hometown, my faith and my life.

York, Pennsylvania is scattered throughout my writings; probably all writers invoke the places they grew up; "beginning places" are part of your DNA. To keep in touch I take to reading the online version of the York Dispatch … ever so often a name or place has a unique meaning.

In March of last year I read an OB for a soldier killed in a war I deeply believe is wrong. There was a picture of a 20 year old boy, “killed in a non combat-related vehicle accident in Anbar Province.” Lance Cpl. Matthew A. Snyder. I played with “Snyders” when I was a kid.

The paper said he was a good Catholic boy; his aunt: "He was a wonderful son, and we're very proud of him and he served our country well.” I could not look at his picture without remembering the friends I’ve lost in other wars and thinking again, "what a waste."

Then yesterday in the on line Huffington Post I found a John Ridley column which began, “God Hates Fags? – NOT ANY MORE -- the Fred Phelps (of the) "God Hates Fags” family of the loving Christian Church (sic) in Topeka Kansas (has) finally being sued for protesting a soldier's funeral and a jury awarded the plaintiff $11 million for invasion of privacy and emotional distress.”

Who sued Phelps? The plaintiff was Matthew Snyder’s father who lives down the street from my third grade friend Richmond, in York. “The goofy jury threw a fit at God," Phelps said -- an eleven million dollar fit!

I’ve had my own experiences with the Rev. Phelps; two of them. One at church, and a more vivid one at an annual Pride Parade in West Hollywood at which I had been coxed from sidewalk viewing and into the parade by friends from church. It was exhilarating, waving to thousands of people until we came to that large intersection at Beverly and Santa Monica Boulevards.

There our little band of gay Christians, lead by an acolyte carrying his church’s golden cross, paused because of the parade's movement and encountered Phelps' "God Hates Fag" signs, drums and all. When his group saw the cross, it drove them into a frenzy. The commotion so mesmerized me that as the group moved, I stood there watching as they spewed out curse words.

In that moment I lost touch with the larger theatre around me. I don't know why I raise my hand and made the sign of the cross over them. But when I did several hundred people in 15 levels of bleachers behind me stood up, roared and applauded this guy standing alone in the middle of street, doing something he’d done before.

“What happened?” said my friends after I ran and caught up, “You’re blushing.” All I remember asking was, “Who ARE those people.” “Some Christians from Kansas.”

Christians! How could they be Christians? Why did their disfigured, hateful existence lead them to yell and scream at the symbol that has been at the center of my life; how can they bring their sick, distorted lives to a funeral of a grieving family whose son fought and died for his country.

Research reveals their aborted theology says that: God hates America and American soldiers because this county has a permissive attitude toward gay persons. And all of that precedes from a literal reading of the Biblical book of Leviticus.

The Huffington Post author suggests that there is little difference between Phelps and the so-called “mainstream,” right wing speakers at last month's Values Voters Conference at which all the Republican candidates for President appeared or Ann Coulter or Peter Pace or Jerry Falwell ... the list goes on and on.

That “list” would like to set themselves above the Phelps of the world; it is reported that other fundamentalist Christians in Topeka turn their heads away when someone mentions his name … but they all quote the same bible verses and preach the same gospel of intolerance making gay persons, as William Sloan Coffin says, the “last respectable minority to hate.”

As I grow older I begin to feel things changing. I think they are because I am. Stories abound about tolerance emerging from Utah, Kansas City, Nebraska, all of this in spite of red state labels, anti-gay marriage amendments, and a dying breed of sick Christian preachers. Even the consternation within my own Episcopal denomination speaks to a better future.

I guess that sense of change found its roots in the Susquehanna River bottom country; in cathedral sermons; in twenty year olds like Matthew Snyder who fight and died for a cause he believed in and for a county, that despite it aches and pains, grows toward acceptance and tolerance. And that washes away the dirt.
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Psalm 20:1-2
1 May the Lord answer you in the day of trouble, *
the Name of the God of Jacob defend you;
2 Send you help from his holy place *
and strengthen you out of Zion;

Monday, November 5, 2007

LA TIMES THIS MORNING.

Under the title: Gay? Who cares? the following op/ed piece by Gregory Rodriguez appeared in this Morning's Los Angeles Times.


Last Tuesday, the New York Times ran a front-page story on the diminishing allure of gay enclaves in the United States. The next day, the San Francisco Chronicle published a Page 1 story explaining how same-sex couples in California are a lot more socioeconomically and ethnically diverse -- read: less white and less wealthy -- than you might believe. The Williams Institute at UCLA Law School will release a report today by demographer Gary Gates that all but poses the question: Is gay the new straight?


READ MORE HERE
, it is excellent.

REPUBLICANS, PUBLIC RESTROOMS, ETC

And now another, yes another, Republican has been nabbed by the toilet police ... this time it is a Daytona Beach City Commissioner named Mike Shallow. Perhaps the Republican Party should start recruiting at the nation's public restrooms? Think of the possibilities! Why use those flimsy wooden voting booths? It’s costing the city of Minneapolis $15,000 to fix up Senator Larry Craig’s old stall. Save on Taxes, Vote in a Stall! On second thought perhaps Craig's appeal on the constitutional grounds of Free Speech with reference to his actions "in the stall" should succeed first.

And, there is this sidebar on the Craig story ...
David Phillips, pictured above, is the man reported to have "tricked" with Craig, you know -- in the public restroom. Phillips' license plates read: "POOFTER" which the dictionary says is a negative British colloquialism for gay men. Ya' learn something new ever day! Anyway, after 13 years the Commonwealth of Virginia apparently has caught on and is recalling his "vanity" plates. Why? Sounds like the cover fits the book!

FLAT EARTH PEOPLE!

They say that Al Gore is happy now ... that being out of politics, for him, is a good thing. I understand that point of view, that being away from a dysfunctional work setting is a good thing. Finding happiness should be everyones main goal ... especially when you can speak out against flat earth people! Gawd!




One of the great, forever unanswered questions will be, what kind of world would we be living in if the Presidency had been given to a good man instead of Bush.

Sunday, November 4, 2007

TORTURE IS NOT LEGAL

Dana M. Perino, the White House press secretary said Thurday, “I can’t imagine the Democrats would want to hold back his nomination just because he is a thoughtful, careful thinker who looks at all the facts before he makes a judgment,”


He made that statement because the real CAREFUL THINKERS who happened to be senators want to know if a future Attorney General of the United States thinks that torture is legal in this country.


WHY DOES THAT QUESTION EVEN HAVE TO BE ASK? DAMN IT! TORTURE IS NOT LEGAL. And that, of course, is the real issue; if he does say it is illegal than anyone in the past who has carried it out or authorized it, like Bush, could be found liable for their actions!

Friday, November 2, 2007

ah, EXCUSE ME BUT WHERE DID THIS COME FROM?

"It's time for Congress to repeal a law that prevents students with marijuana convictions from receiving federal financial aid for college." -- The New York Times editorial board -- Friday opinion piece.


Ah, excuse me but when did this become a law? College kids? Pot? Oh come on!

"Closet” Hurts Employee & Employer

And now this story: A survey of gay and lesbian employees across the U.S. has found that "fears about disclosing a gay identity at work had an overwhelmingly negative relationship with their career and workplace experiences and with their psychological well-being."


I came to realize this on a deeply personal level at the last two places I worked. The interesting one was about the other guy "in the closet" who damaged my career because of his own fears of being disclosed. The other? That's another story for another time.

WHY THE HELL ...

...does this man think it is okay to torture people?

WHY THE HELL ...

does this man think that torture is okay ... WHY?

NOW NANCY ...

When asked about President Bush at her weekly news conference this week Nancy Pelosi, Speaker of the House of Representatives and second inline for the Presidency said: “What does he have to show for his presidency? He’s the president of the United States and already talking about his library. What is he going to have in a library: a tax cut for the wealthiest people in the country at the expense of the middle class and a war without end that is a total failure?”


Now Nancy, would you just do your part to end the war? And why don't "we" ever remember the poor? Just the middle class?

MILLENNIUM DEVELOPMENT GOALS (MDGs) ???

Several months ago my friend Bruce (aka Anthony, danceTM) came back from one of his "churchy" things in Seattle talking about the Millennium Development Goals or MDG. I had never heard of them.


Then today I came across this: The Millennium Development Goals set a framework for how the world could see the end of extreme poverty. In September, 2000, The United States joined with 188 nations to affirm a set of international development goals in the United Nations Millennium Declaration. (The eight Millennium Development Goals (MDGs) (MDGs) reflect an understanding of the devastation caused by global hunger and poverty and aim for a world that is free of such suffering.


On simple local level, I’ve spent a lot of time working toward these objectives. Somehow those "small things" seemed more manageable. But imagine what would happen if we could change the larger mindset… Pretty amazing.

Thursday, November 1, 2007

AN OCCASSIONAL SELECTION OF THE MORNING NEWS

Poll Shows Vermonters In Favor of Impeachment (61% Favor) from Democratic Underground.com:


Former Navy Instructor Offers Another Waterboarding Primer for Mukasey from MPuckraker.com:


"ANOTHER CONSERVATIVE REPUBLICAN CAUGHT IN GAY SEX SCANDAL." For your video view pleasure on Utube via CNN:


Would someone please tell me why all this goes together?

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

IT'S JUST THE MUSIC, JUST THE MUSIC



O bonny Portmore, you shine where you stand
And the more I think on you the more I think long
If I had you now as I had once before
All the Lords of Old England would not purchase Portmore.

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

HALLOWEEN IS CANCELLED

Yesterday’s emails from two old friends revealed two different angles about two well known events..

The first was from Jeff Prang, off and on mayor of the City of West Hollywood. It almost screams at you from the monitor,” Santa Monica Boulevard will once again be “pulsing” with excitement on Halloween night.” Conversely, the current mayor of San Francisco Gavin Newsom released a statement saying: "Halloween is canceled.” No more “pulsing” on Castro Street; he wants folks to “kick the Castro habit.”

Mr. Prang babbles on about, “the largest adult outdoor Halloween event in the world,” and is relaxing WoHo’s notoriously, restrictive parking zones for the evening. Mr. Newsom glumly watches as $40,000 is allocated to urge revelers to stay “Home For Halloween."

Both cities have web sites. San Francisco’s web site lists dozens of suggested Halloween alternatives while Weho’s extols the event and gives helpful “how to” hints and even “green” parking alternatives.

After wishing us “a fun and safe Halloween” Mr. Prang does have one word of caution.he pleads in large red letters, “Please Do Not Bring Your Dogs.” Apparently what some might find “pulsing” for the eyes or even morally horrifying, is even harder on dogs!

But to be kinder to friend Newsom, he is tired of revelry turning into riots, bashing and offensive gang activities. He has discovered what most mothers already know: while ever kid and a lot of adults like to dress up, Halloween can be dangerous.

Now, that is sad; sad for those of us who have been to the San Francisco event; sad for every kid who has held his parents hand on a chilly night, knocked at a door and found a “treat” … Perhaps the “trick” is not to give into the newer harsh realties of life. Perhaps.

However something tells me that in another fifty years someone will bemoan that lose of decorated houses, malls filled with kids at night and maybe, just maybe, rediscover that old fashion idea of taking a childs hand and walking around a local neighborhood. I hope so.

QUESTION

MSNBC's Dan Abrams reported on Monday that Michael Mukasey's nomination to be attorney general may be in trouble, due to his reluctance to say whether he believes waterboarding is torture...

Why are we even discussing this issue? Why are we at a point where we even talk about individual torture techniques? Why can't a nominee of attorney general say this country does not, will never, torture people? Damn it! Damn it!

OH LORD, ONLY IN YOU CAN WE FIND SAFETY ...

When I was in college I had a tough Journalism teacher but I don't know anyone who did not learn a lot from her. I need to tell her stories some day. When she retired she moved to a place called Fallbrook in San Diego County, CA. Here are the pictures she email to me … of what life was like … still is…for her right now.






Monday, October 29, 2007

"The pendulum in the Christian world has swung back to the moderate point of view"

David D. Kirkpatrick reports for The New York Times: "Just three years ago, the leaders of the conservative Christian political movement could almost see the Promised Land. White evangelical Protestants looked like perhaps the most potent voting bloc in America.... Today the movement shows signs of coming apart beneath its leaders. It is not merely that none of the 2008 Republican front-runners come close to measuring up to President Bush in the eyes of the evangelical faithful.... The 2008 election is just the latest stress on a system of fault lines that go much deeper."


I have lived through this pendulum winging ... and it does swing ... both ways. The link connected to the title above takes you to the New York Times article. Swing, swing ... but it does not tell you about the bigots and jerks who are not old or dead or retired ...

FOR EPISCOPALIANS IN THE KNOW ....

No one knows what the Executive Council is so: The Executive Council of the Episcopal Church (TEC) is an elected body representing the whole Church. In the course of the three years between convention, the Executive Council meets. Their duty is to carry out the programs and policies adopted by General Convention of the church – the major governing body of TEC.

They just meet in Dearborn, Michigan and passed a resolution concerning BO33

The most interesting part of the be it “resolveds” was: ”… it may inappropriately suggest that an additional qualification for the episcopacy has been imposed beyond those contained in the constitutions and canons of the church…”

This is such an obscure point for someone who knows nothing about this particular story but important for people seeking the full rights for all baptized persons within our church. And so, the story continues.

REMEMBER THE VALDEZ?

While a good case can be made to keep every "Tom, Dick and Harry” from getting a million dollars for a fly found in a hamburger, no reasonable person could deny about 33,000 commercial fishermen, cannery workers, landowners, Native Alaskans, local governments and businesses from getting punitive damages from Exxon Mobil Corp. Remember the Exxon Valdez oil spill that fouled more than 1,200 miles of Alaskan coastline in 1989?

The amount that they are seeking represents “barely more than three weeks of Exxon's net profits,” say lawyers for that group.

Yet this case is now before the Roberts Supreme Court. The last time that court was presented with a similar case on punitive damages they set aside a judgment against Altria Group Inc.'s Philip Morris USA. The money was awarded to the widow of a smoker in Oregon.

Let’s not forget that Justice Samuel Alito, who owns between $100,000 and $250,000 in Exxon stock. I don’t know. What is going on in this country of ours anyway?

REFLECTIONS

"Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone-we find it with another. We do not discover the secret of our lives merely by study and calculation in our own isolated meditations. The meaning of our life is a secret that has to be revealed to us in love, by the one we love. -- a weekly reflection The Merton Institute for Contemplative Living sends.

Morning 31:7-8
7 I will rejoice and be glad because of your mercy; *
for you have seen my affliction;
you know my distress.
8 You have not shut me up in the power of the enemy; *
you have set my feet in an open place.

Recognize the open places in your life. -- a daily reflection sent each day by a local faith community.

I need this kind of focus each day and using a computer is becoming more helpful than the books by my bedside.

Sunday, October 28, 2007

ROLLING STONE, ROVE & ME

Over the years I have had news articles published and have won a national news writing award. But nothing prepared me for the reaction that my story on my old friend Louie Rove created.


Over thirty different blogs picked it up. Most of them were fringe types but a few are considered "legitimate" ... none of them picked the story up from here -- all of them picked it up from BME ... even Rolling Stone read BME and included it their latest issue -- the so-called "hot" issue.


What is confusing to some are the two versions of that story -- simply put, there is the "gay" version and the "piercing" version. My more astute friends have asked me why I was surprised that the "gay" angle of the story was NOT picked up while the "read" was on the piercing angle ... "Hell," one of them said, "gay is old, piercing is new."


One aspect of publishing the story was the level of intolerance that folks on the conservative political spectrum expressed. While I never explicatively identified my own sexual orientation, some of them called me a "fag" and a "fruit cake" because I had a gay friend!


So what did I learn? I learned that the web is a massive communication tool. I've learned how to track people using something as simple as Google and I've learned that nothing is private anymore.


If you Google your email address people can not only find out what you bought on eBay but what you said at a city council meeting or that your old friend, Louie Rove, had a gold ring now on display at Anomaly Studios in Pasadena.


I am not sure if that is awesome or scary.

Saturday, October 27, 2007

Religion doesn't confer right to discriminate

There are two bills -- HR 3685 and 3686, before the House of Representatives which seek to give gays, lesbians, bisexuals and the transgendered protection from discrimination in the workplace. Naturally, President Bush indicated that he'll veto the bills.


A statement from the administration (on 3685) indicates that his main issue with the bill is that it "is inconsistent with the right to the free exercise of religion as codified by Congress in the Religious Freedom Restoration Act."


So, being a Christian means you get to deny people jobs based on what goes on in their pants when they're not at work?

Friday, October 26, 2007

1 and 2 and 3 on Craig.

1) I have no idea why this whole business issue of Senator Larry Craig (R-Idaho) seems so funny to me ... because it really is sad ... but that said: today it is reported that Craig is now claiming that his foot-tapping and hand gestures under a stall divider in a public restroom are protected by the First Amendment of the Constitution which guarantees free speech!

2) And now there is someone has finally come forward and said he had “sex” with the senator.

3) And finally the BBC reports that the restroom where this all happened has become a tourist spot! Ain't that special!

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

for the the BIBLE tells me so ...



And that says it all!

WEAK SS AND EVEN WEAKER GOVERNMENT

Thanks to the Bush Administration and a weak congress for passing and signing the misguided Medicare Modernization Act of 2003. Medicare premium increases are now at the highest dollar amount in the program's history and are claiming a growing share of the annual Social Security Cost-of-Living Adjustment (COLA) — on top of rising fuel, food, and housing costs your COLA is supposed to cover!


Ain't that special!

Priests Jailed for Protesting

Writer Bill Quigley says in Truthout : "Louis Vitale, 75, a Franciscan priest, and Steve Kelly, 58, a Jesuit priest, were sentenced to five months each in federal prison for attempting to deliver a letter opposing the teaching of torture at Fort Huachuca in Arizona. Both priests were taken directly to jail from the courtroom after sentencing." - Truth hurts I guess -

NOTHING on poverty

A small group of my brothers (probably not sisters) in Christ met in Washington last weekend at something they called a "Values Summit." The only thing on there minds were gays and abortions and which Republican presidential candidate would be toughest on "them gays" (and their "gay agenda") and the "abortionists" even though surveys of that same group say that the economy and Iraq are their number one & two concerns.


David Kuo, President Bush's former special assistant in the Office of Faith-Based Initiatives seem aghast and stopped commenting on the "summit" saying in his blog, Beliefnet. "I must end the post now or else I will write things that I will have to repent for."


So it seems that the religious extremists are still in charge of the Republican primaries.


At the conclusion of the values "event" it seems that former Baptist minister Mike Huckabee won the day for those attending until call-in voters were added and then "the great switch-a-rue from 'livable' republican to right wing appeaser", former governor, Mitt Romney of Massachusetts was first. Now ain't that special.

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

HALF A MILLION PEOPLE

V. Give peace, O Lord, in all the world;

R. For only in you can we live in safety.


People around here have said for years, "Why do people live in those places?"




Others build homes where mud slides just happen or waves wash things away. If you look at a map of fires in Los Angeles over the last 100 years, THE most burned place is Malibu!

Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger has called it the "perfect fire" or megafires caused by the convergence of the driest year since 1898 and the worst winds in 20 years both caused by what the Christian Science Monitor says is climatic change . It is 10 times the size of the average forest fire of 20 years ago. The sky is orange, white ash is even here ... the sun and moon have other worldly looks to them...

The people most affected are home owners, upper middle class ... It is the worst disaster in San Diego County history, maybe the state -- a half a million displaced persons and 1500 lost homes. AND it is burning right near where it burned in '03. I can't imagine the lose those people must feel.

After the '03 fire, a statewide blue ribbon committee made a series of recommendations -- MOST of which has not been implemented. Fires are not the only problem that California faces, but doing any major infrastructure work, such as those in that report, means taxes and no one is willing to raise taxes.

And then there is our California National Guard. Half of them and their equipment are in Iraq! Now ain't that special!

That's my simplistic way of looking at it.

Monday, October 22, 2007

Are they all nuts?


Mike Huckabee’s (R Arkansas) campaign for president's web site says that he is out to show people that the American dream is still alive.

Well, not everyone. He said this weekend: “Some 10,000 baby boomers a day are going to be signing up for Social Security, and if you think that’s bad economic news, just wait till all the old, aging hippies find out they can get free drugs from the federal government!” I guess he's not including us "aging hippies" in his dream?

Monday, October 15, 2007

The First of Many “Comings” Out

I have not put these kinds of things here before ... my friend Bruce asked me to participate in The National Coming Out Day Service ... it was an emotional moment for me:

The First of Many “Comings” Out.
St. Wilfrids Church, Huntington Beach, CA
October 12, 2008

On Christmas day of 1962 the movie of Harper Lee’s novel, To Kill a Mockingbird was released. Atticus Finch is a lawyer in the Depression-era south who defends a black man against an un-deserved rape charge, and, his kids against prejudice. Some of you may remember the movie; fewer will hear the movie’s music theme. The following summer I made love to a man for the first time in my life; we listened to that music all night long.

The next day I did two things -- I bought that LP and drove to the top of a local mountain … I sat up there and cried and cried and asked God to take away "those" feelings. I never tired so hard to talk to God … God never say anything back to me … but last night when I played that music again, I figured that was the moment that I “came out” to God ... the first of many “comings out”.
·
Five years later I drove down here to Huntington Beach to "tell" my brother. Working up the courage, I finally said it, “Richard I’m gay.” After an eternity he said with a smile, “You know, I always figured you got "it" in the end somewhere along the line!” “Richard,” I yelled, “That’s disgusting.” I grabbed a couch pillow, so did he, and two men had a pillow fight … We did not know about hugging them.
·
A couple of years later I meet “Peaches” at the 8727, a coffee shop on Melrose for the under 21 crowd … We talked about gay liberation. Peaches’ idea was to have a tea party; with his grandmother’s porcelain china tea service - linen table cloth and all … So one Sunday morning 30 of us sat on the ground at a turn on most crusey road in Griffith Park had tea - tea as an expression of liberation…
·
The Little Cave was a Sunset Blvd. neighborhood bar down the street from my house in Silver Lake. On its ... so I found myself with Harry Hay, John Burnside (founders of the Mattachine Society) and Morris Knight. And there I made what seems like such an arcane statement to three very non-religious people: “I heard this Negro preacher in a church in San Francisco and he said it was all about freedom.” … the preacher, Martin Luther King Jr.; the church, Grace Cathedral.
·
“He is NOT here.” I said, sticking my head around my front door and staring at two FBI agents … “Well, can we come in? We think a draft dodger is here.” “NO, I am in my underwear” “Just let us in,” “NO, I am in my underwear, you can’t come in,” “We’ll come back later” “Okay, but not now, I am in my underwear.”
·
“Frank, you don’t remember me … I’m one of the gay guys you helped with draft counseling and I didn’t have to go to Vietnam … you allowed me to realize that I really was, a conscientious objector …”
·
There have been other moments … I was at Stonewall … And now, none of you can now run for president – you’ve listen to a member of the FBI's most subversive underground groups called “Radical Fairies” … code name: “Glenda May;” and, on the front steps of All Saints Church when I told Doug Vest that I had baptized + the love of my life as he lay on his death bed. “How does it feel,” Doug said, “to be a priest in God’s church?” ... or telling my str8 friend Randy about my own coming out and his realizing that he had his own as well.

I have come to know it was God’s hand that took me here. But when Bruce asked me to be here tonight, I had one realization: I am glad God never said anything to me when I cried on top of that mountain.
·
But for all these years, particularly during my “preaching years,” a secret part of me wanted to do something I’ve never done until tonight … stand in the pulpit and say, “Hi, my name is Frank Clark and I’m gay.” The journey continues; the dream will never die … No on Prop 8!

Saturday, October 13, 2007

INTO THE DUST BIN OF HISTORY AWARD

THE AWARD:
This now famous award was first conceived and awarded in 2007 by the editors of Yard[D]og on Simple Truths. It allows us to properly recognize the famous, the little known, the ones that don't wanna-be-known and/or the just plain stupid for behavior that is, in our collective minds, "beyond the pale."

TO NOMINATE:
Readers wishing to nominate person(s) and/or event(s) for the INTO THE DUST BIN OF HISTORY AWARD are encouraged to contact "The Editors" HERE.

THE CRITERIA:
The only criteria is that the person(s) and/or event(s) be, as "The Editors" have described, "beyond the pale."

PAST RECIPIENTS:
A list of past recipients maybe found HERE.

"Workers and oppressed of the world unite,
you have nothing to lose but your chains."
Vladimir Lenin

Free Music While You're Here

Free online listening ... kinda cool, and you get a free hamburger every-one-in-a-while, too!
LISTEN TO PANDORA...

"A living nightmare"...

This sad story is everywhere. "A Japanese proverb says, 'Action without vision is a nightmare. There is no question that America is living a nightmare with no end in sight." Retired Army Lt. Gen. Ricardo Sanchez
READ MORE on MILITARY REPORTERS AND EDITORS...

READ MORE on CBS...

Thursday, October 11, 2007

Rudy, John, Mitt, Fred, what country are you boys living in

A couple of weeks ago, on September 27th, Tavis Smiley hosted the second All-American Presidential Forum at Morgan State University in Baltimore. Some of the boys did not show up. Wonder why?

READ MORE...

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

A Bit of Advice ...

"I actually think that in a way, the fact that I've been through so much incoming fire all these years is an advantage," she said, adding: "It's been my observation that when you're attacked continually in American politics, you either give up or get disoriented or you either lose or leave -- or you persevere and show your resilience." H. R. Clinton (October 2007)


I am not going to vote for her but this is something I like ... I understand it.


Sunday, September 23, 2007

THE WAR -- click on this Title for more information.


Watch it ...

When I first posted this I thought I was just talking about a show on PBS. And I was ... but just looking at those two words "The War" and having seen the show, I know those two words have so much more meaning. While the PBS series was not about our current war, it certainly does applies to all wars ... death and destruction ...

Thursday, September 20, 2007

Fascist anyone?

Do these sound familiar?
Laurence W. Britt writes the following in an article called Fascist Anyone. He outlines 14 basic characteristics that are more prevalent and intense in some fascist regimes than in others, but they all share at least some level of similarity:

1. Powerful and continuing expressions of nationalism.
2. Disdain for the importance of human rights.
3. Identification of enemies/scapegoats as a unifying cause.
4. The supremacy of the military/avid militarism.
5. Rampant sexism and homophobic
6. A controlled mass media
7. Obsession with national security.
8. Religion and ruling elite tied together.
9. Power of corporations protected
10. Power of labor suppressed or eliminated.
11. Disdain and suppression of intellectuals and the arts
12. Obsession with crime and punishment.
13. Rampant cronyism and corruption.
14. Fraudulent elections


Read the Link in the title above at Council of Human Secularism’s web site and get the whole article.

‘Your hypocrisy is so vast’

Olbermann to Bush:
‘Your hypocrisy is so vast ..."

Follow the Link in the title above and listen to the Olbermann commentary....

Okay, this is stupid, too



Okay, so I used to watch this show, some!

Pressed in Time: American Prints 1905 - 1950

Oct. 6
Now this is a place like.

Monday, September 17, 2007

How much funnier is this going to get?


BBC New: Monday, September 17, 2007: The Minneapolis airport toilet where US senator Larry Craig was arrested for allegedly soliciting gay sex is now attracting tourists, say airport staff. “ People are taking pictures," Karen Evans, an information officer at Minneapolis-St Paul international airport, told Associated Press.

Now it seems that tourists passing through the airport cannot resist the temptation to have a look at the scene. "We had to just stop and check out the bathroom," said Sally Westby of Minneapolis, on her way to Guatemala with her husband Jon. "In fact, it's Jon's second time - he was here last week already."

UPDATE: well it just got funnier. Check the title above to read some tacky report of someone who claims to have sex with Senator Craig. Gawd!

Friday, September 14, 2007

REALLY REALLY FUNNY

This is really good And thanks to BME'er Eroy in Australia for sending it.

Christian & Tattoos

Several months ago I was finishing a retreat at a mountain top monastery in Santa Barbara. On the last day the Prior preached. He began by referring to the last addition of The Christian Century. The lead article is entitled, "The Christian & Tattoos - Marked"... it was the center of his sermon.

After briefly restating the article, he said, "...that getting tattooed seemed to be a kind of sacrament, a way of bearing in the body and before the world something about one's deepest identity. And that, in a world lacking in 'rites of passage,' it becomes an experience that our American culture by and large lacks."

"Christ himself is marked. Our tradition teaches that the resurrected body of Jesus -- that mysteriously transformed yet recognizable human presence, that flesh bearing the wounds, the very scars of the life-giving passion -- is not discarded or thrown off or transcended, but is exalted and honored and seated in the heavenly places. It is a radical claim ... a challenge to our own experience of living in these particular bodies, in this material world. It reminds us that we -- body, soul, spirit, and our whole creation has an external and exalted destiny.

"Jesus is marked. And so are we. Each of us bears the 'imago dei', the divine image, whether we are aware of it or not. And each of us who has been baptized within Christ, bear his mark, his cross, his wounds on our soul. We, each of us, have been tattooed, if you will, into God's gang, God family ... thought we all too often betray those marks by our hatred and disobedience. But it is there.

"I wonder this morning what would happen if our marks, the tattoos of our faith, were to suddenly become visible. What would they say, what would they portray? What would the world read on our bodies/our souls/our lives/our action individual or corporately on that Body which is Christ's Church?

"I have to remind myself: I do have some choice. And the question I ask myself today is: What does the tattoo of my life say to me, to those around me, and to a suffering and fragile world? And what would I like it to say? Were I to visit a tattoo parlor this afternoon what would I have inscribe on my arm, my forehead, my heart? Sh'ma Yisroel? Simul Justus et Perccator? God is Love? Jesus is Lord? God be merciful to me a sinner?

"What would you choose; for in a sense we must choose daily, hourly. What would you choose? May God grant us all the grace to choose well.

A Note on Retreats...

I sometimes wander off to these places to get away. It's a good thing.



The thing about going away is that you get some time to refresh but when you come back, you come back to the same problems you left behind.

Thursday, September 13, 2007

THE DUST BIN OF HISTORY AWARD

A partial list of previous recipients include:

  • Karl Rove
  • California State Representative Anthony Portintino
  • The doorman at Dick's Cabaret
  • President George W. Bush (multi-times)
  • The North Carolina State Baptist Convention
  • Senators Larry Craig and David Vitter
  • Rev. Fred Phelps (for whom this award was first given)
  • Wayne Lusvardi - the "Antichrist" of Pasadena?
  • Sally Kern - Oklahoma House Representative
  • Archbishop Akinola - Should remember the role of a servant
    U.S. Rep Paul Broun- who is just hateful.
  • Kern County Princess Ann Barnett - faith before her duty.
  • high school principal Eddie Walkers - faith before righteousness.


  • Most people submit potential DBOHA names by by email ... you may also obtain a complete list of past recipients by posting that request below.

    Six year old wisdom ...

    Notes from the Garden… #103

    There are so many people who have made my garden great. Anyone who gardens knows that God is always in the process. Several years ago Christian, then the six-year-old grandson of our Orthodox neighbors, found me pruning roses on a Sunday morning. “How 'comes' you aren’t in church,” he challenged me. "I was!”

    What did you learn?” I asked.

    I learned about the Transfiguration,” he said.

    What’s that?” I asked. “It is too complicated for you to know.” Christian said.

    For some people gardens are complicated; some know the names of all the weeds … but everyone, no matter who you are, can sit in one and listen to the wisdom of a six year old.

    Wednesday, September 12, 2007

    ARCADIA, LEMON TREES AND YARDDOG


    The older I get, the more I know about threes. Perhaps that is part of life. I don’t know their botanical names yet, but I know how to prune them, especially fruit trees. Several of my friends even call me an arborist. My neighborhood isn’t perfect but the trees are. They are a joy.

    I learned most of what I know from my next door Greek neighbor. One day I met Alex in front of his house. “Why are you staring at your apricot tree?” I asked. In his thick accent he responded: “I am talking to my tree. It is telling me how to cut it. Listen.”

    So Alex began to show me what his tree was “saying.” “I can show you what your apricot is saying, too.” He suddenly bounded into my yard and I began to learn a whole new language, one my trees “spoke.”

    That is how my affair with trees began. Those long and quiet conversations led to beautiful trees, sharing fruit, giving new knowledge away to others and building a small community on Palm Drive in Arcadia.

    Across the street from us was one special tree – a lemon tree. It produced the biggest lemons in the world. The average lemon from that tree was bigger than a grapefruit! I sent those lemons to my childhood home in York, PA.., shared them at church and used them in cooking; we all did. The former owner always said, “Take whatever you want.” Our entire neighborhood shared its abundance.

    Recently someone new bought that property. They knocked down the house and tore up the lemon tree. A huge bulldozer took out in two minutes what we had seen grow for 40 years. Not only did they kill that lemon tree but they chopped down a city tree as well. That city elm made our street a tree-lined drive.

    “They don’t like trees that block the front door.” The Arcadia city tree man told me.

    What do you mean: they don’t like tree in front of their house? Can’t you make them replace it?”

    "Well, there is a fine, and a new tree will be planted.”

    "... the same size as the old one?” I demanded.

    No, no, just a new tree.”

    So, yesterday I began to wonder, how does a community fall apart? How can a public tree be killed just because someone doesn’t like it facing his front door? Does anyone care about a lemon tree that grew the biggest lemons in the world or how those trees will no longer make a small neighborhood a real community?

    My mother who is 80 years old said: “I wish we could have said goodbye to it. We will never see another tree like that one.” I could not respond and perhaps there are no answers to any of those questions.

    What I know is that I have live here and grown old with those trees. My father died in his house here. I have gone through our schools, have mowed and watered my lawn, tended my gardens, paid my taxes and made this town the kind of place others now desire and move into with such a seeming disregard for what we have cared for and loved.

    Next year there will be a huge new house across the street. But I will remember those two old trees, see the shape of the fruit, smell those lemons and miss the shade from the elm. And in another 40 years? Well, neither my mother nor I will live long enough to see that a new little tree grow to make Palm Drive a tree-lined street again.

    Originally written and published on August 29, 1999

    Sunday, September 9, 2007

    WHY A BLOG & EMAIL

    My goofy friend David once told me that he would only vote for a politician he knew personally. Saying that may have been his reaction to my attempts to sway his natural inclination toward conservative politics … to circumventing that aspect of our conversations.

    Perhaps good form or a long time friendship kept me from challenging this odd concept … after all politicians; of all stripes affect our lives. It seems silly, almost un-American to automatically disenfranchise yourself ninety-nine percent of the time.

    But the actual idea itself is interesting. And so I have it in my mind to keep my musings to subjects and people I know; not in an ethereal context but in a real physical way, while not losing touch with the larger moral issues of my day.

    Yard[D]og maybe reached HERE.

    Saturday, September 8, 2007

    THE ROVE I KNEW


    It’s funny how people come into your life. If you live long enough and pay attention to the world around you, you might realize that old saying that each of us is only six degrees from one another. Those connections are like haze on a mirror after a shower, but wipe the surface, dig into it and you will clearly see everything around you but probably not the glue that holds it all together.

    Louie was gay; nothing unusual about that. He had retired to Palm Springs after a career as a geologist for Getty Oil and owned a comfortable house off Farrell Street, on Santa Ynez Way. His home was chock full with mementos, pictures of his kids, grandkids, art he had gathered on his travels; a library full of books, all kinds of videos, a fantastic classical CD collection – it was a place I felt at home. Like a lot of people in Palm Springs, he kept a spare room for visitors.

    His compact back yard had the obligatory Palm Springs turquoise colored pool and water-tolerant plants. Pea-sized gravel surrounded fruit trees that served as a feeding area for birds. Louie was an amateur birder and each day he would throw out seed for the various kinds of finch that lived in the tall, tightly cropped oleander bushes round the yard that provide privacy.

    And it was by the pool in the shade of the patio, on the floor in the library, driving off to Sunday brunch or birding at Salton Sea that I heard the tales of his journeys, saw the pictures of people in it, and got a glimpse of a man who had lived a full life. He was twenty years older and Louie intrigued me.

    All of this is not to say I viewed him as a perfect man; I thought he drank and smoked too much, was temperamental and never watched his diet. He held a grudge beyond reason and could be insulting … we lost touch because of his drinking. I just did not know what to do with people I might call moody drunks. But for a long time I just enjoyed my Palm Springs weeks, lazy days by the pool, laughter and story telling.

    And then on a Sunday brunch with the guys at Cedar Creek on Palm Canyon Drive, his best friend Joe Koons turned to me and sort of whispered, “You DO know who his son is don’t you?” “No!” “He’s the chief of staff for the Governor of Texas.” Looking back I realize there was something more in that whisper but at the time it passed by me.

    His son -- all I knew about his kids was what Louie told me as I looked at their pictures in the living room. He had adopted them. Other than that I was mostly bothered by their visits to Palm Springs or his to Santa Fe, because that meant the house was closed for other over night visitors. And his wife; Louie told me he had come out and so they divorced. But when I saw the family photographs I just saw the usual grouping of people and smiling portraitures.

    As I watched the news this week I saw a “Rove” standing beside the President, his voice cracking, talking about his love for the President and his country but over that “noise” I heard the memory of Joe Koons whispering in my ear. “You do know who his son is?”

    Oh My God! Louie Rove; Karl Rove.

    I started to wonder then if the son ever cried for the man who raised him and watched him grow up as he did for President Bush. Would Karl talk about his gay father, with the emotion he was showing then? I told a Texas based reporter that none of us knew where he is buried.

    He replied that the service was private. I can respect a family’s intentions but it is so typical for families who want to "hide" a person’s sexual orientation to keep a funeral private, away from long-time friends. Gay deaths are cluttered with "private" family services.

    There is a part of me that wonders why Karl did NOT "distance himself from his father.” Instead such things are reported like Karl having a picture of his father in his White House office; that they were “close”.

    Were they close as you or I might think "close" is? I do not nor can I claim to know. But Louie was gay; people knew it; his son knew it. And as Louie was dying in Palm Springs, Karl was developing and implementing a successful political strategy based on inflaming an anti-gay political base through wedge issues like gay marriage in very specific key battle ground states in the general election.

    My question is: How could a son do such a thing, and call it love – either of his father, or of his country?

    Luciano ~ the great one...

    BREAKING NEWS Updated: 26 minutes ago

    ROME - Luciano Pavarotti, whose vibrant high C’s and ebullient showmanship made him one of the world’s most beloved tenors, has died, his manager told The Associated Press. He was 71.




    This was the greatest tenor in my life ...here he sings the short, Nessun Dorma. IF YOU HAVE NEVER HEARD OPERA OR THINK YOU DON'T LIKE IT, just listen to this 3.5 minutes and be changed forever. Period.

    Monday, May 21, 2007

    DIRT AND DUST - US Rep. Broun


    U.S. Rep. Paul Broun says an amendment to the U.S. Constitution is needed to protect heterosexual marriage from ‘activist judges.

    Read all you can about this man. We wonder when these kind of people will once and for all just fade away. Will it take another 20 years before the bigots of this world find another target for these sickness?

    Another Into The Dust Bin of History Award winner ... Rep. Droun!

    Saturday, March 17, 2007

    Houseless in 2008


    This town of mine has always cared about the homeless. I feel I can say that with confidence after 35 years of working with volunteers, donors, and our faith communities who help the homeless daily.

    I’ve talked about the city’s homeless with congressmen, City managers, police chiefs, mayors and at rotary, Church groups, at the country Club, the Town and Country. I’ve gone anywhere people would listen. And my listeners all care a lot about a problem that is now more than 40 years old and not much has changed.

    Despite all of our conversations, one remark by one resident John Rasmussen sticks in my mind. Short, red-headed and always carrying a walking stick, John, who slept next to the heating vents at the main library in the winter said to me, “Frank, I’m not homeless, I’m houseless.”

    Despite all of our conversations, one remark by a Pasadena resident John Rasmussen sticks in my mind. Short, red-headed and always carrying a walking stick, John, who slept next to the heating vents at the main library in the winter said to me, “Frank, I’m not homeless, I’m houseless.”

    John’s words came back to me at this month’s meeting of the community Coalition. The Coalition’s members represent our faith-based non-profits and churches with the primary aim to assist the homeless. In the middle of that meeting I heard an Executive Director say his agency was applying for a “Housing First” grant.

    “Stop,” I said. “What does ‘Housing First’ mean?”

    “It’s an approach to ending homelessness that is centered on getting homeless people into permanent housing and THEN providing then with services.” he replied.
    That stunned me. The philosophy I worked within emphasized emergency and transition housing and supportive services first -- a kind of education model. If you worked your way though the “lower” levels, a service provider would then find housing. The Housing First strategy stresses finding permanent housing quickly and providing services if and when they are needed.

    Shortly after the 1994 Northridge Earthquake, various social service groups and government agencies set up emergency centers to assist displaced persons. When John heard that he went to Northridge. He came back and told me, “They didn’t help me because I was ‘really’ homeless.” That is about the closest I’ve heard of a similar program, but John was not its target population.

    The National Alliance to End Homelessness coordinates a network of agencies dedicated to the Housing First concept. There are several critical elements:

    • Focus on helping individuals and families access and sustain permanent rental housing as quickly as possible;
    • Services are delivered primarily following a housing placement to promote housing stability and individual well-being. Such services are time-limited or long-term, depending upon individual need; and
    • Housing is not contingent on compliance with services. Instead, participants must comply with a standard lease agreement and are provided with the services and supports that are necessary to help them do so successfully.

    While Housing First programs share these common elements, new emerging program models vary significantly depending upon the population served, says the Alliance.

    I used to have an old saying, “If you were homeless for one month, it took year to ‘get over it’; if you were homeless for a year, it took five years; if you were homeless for five years you were homeless for a lifetime. But most folks are only homeless for a month or two.”

    Unless they were too sick to comprehend it, I never meet a homeless person that did not want housing. And not housing in a church basement, housing that separated families, housing in a downtown Los Angeles mission, housing that can not accept men and/or teenage boys, housing that puts two families in a single room with everyone in bunk beds … or housing in jail.

    Most people, especially families, are homeless due to a personal crisis and are not chronically homeless like John for whom emergency shelters would have been a life-long reality. But our system of care that developed as an honest attempt to address a social phenomenon 40 years ago, has failed to address the basic underlying issue: the availability of permanent, affordable housing.

    John had it right all those years ago, he wasn’t homeless, he was houseless. That is where our caring energy should focus today.